We use the spherical collapse method to investigate the nonlinear density perturbations of pressureless matter in the cosmological models with the extended quintessence as dark energy in the metric and Palatini formalisms. We find that for both formalisms, when the coupling constant is negative, the deviation from the ΛCDM model is the least according to the evolutionary curves of the linear density contrast δc and virial overdensity Δv, and it is less than 1%. And this indicates that, in the extended quintessence cosmological models in which the coupling constant is negative, all quantities dependent on δc or Δv are essentially unaffected if the linear density contrast or the virial overdensity of the ΛCDM model is used as an approximation. Moreover, we find that the differences between different formalisms are very small in terms of structure formation, and thus cannot be used to distinguish the metric and Palatini formalisms.